Unsung Hero
This weekend was the 10th anniversary of the death of Princess Diana. But I want to talk about another anniversary that occurred this weekend: the day after Princess Diana died, my mother was diagnosed with a rare lung disease called Lymphangioleiomyomatosis (LAM for short- there is a link in my section to the left). She had just had her second operation for a collapsed lung, the first being 1990 when she was pregnant with my sister Elise.
When she was told, the Doctor walked in with barely any information, except that the only cure was lung transplant, and within 10 years she could be dead, or looking at lung transplant. Mum sat there thinking "well, at least I'm not 36 and dead in a car accident..."
More is known about it now, it's caused my a mutation in a gene that is involved in the cell proliferation cycle- this mutation causes the proliferation of smooth muscle tissue in the lungs, causing cysts, and decreasing the lung capacity. These cysts can burst, causing lung collapse, which needs to be dealt with through operations. The disease is progressive, some women can deteriorate rapidly, others more slowly.
Interestingly, it only effects women. Female hormones can cause changes in the progression of the disease- pregnancy rapidly increases deterioration, and hormone replacement therapy during menopause is not an option.
10 years later, we are lucky and blessed that Mum has experienced slow progression. It's only in the most recent years that she gets puffed more easily and has shown a decrease in her lung capacity tests. She doesn't need oxygen therapy, let alone a lung transplant!
There are only about 50 women in Australia with the disease- Mum knows and is friends with quite a few of them. Over the years we have seen some of them deteriorate, go onto oxygen, have lung transplants, and we have lost some of them as well.
So today, while the world is still thinking of Princess Diana, I ask you to just stop a moment to say a prayer and think of my Mum, and others like her, the unsung heroes of this world who battle disease, illness and other struggles in anonymity, often while still dealing with everyday life, with courage that is not always seen and demonstrated by so many these days.


9 comments:
Many prayers for your mother Rachel.
Thankyou Therese, they are very much appreciated! :)
God Bless
I'm sorry to hear about your mother. My mom had lung cancer, so I get an idea of the scariness of the problem. Prayers.
wonderful descrption...
wow, powerful post
God Bless
xxx
There are so many heroes out there, the unnamed, unknown ones. Your mom is a strong lady and well the apple does not fall far from the tree.
I'll keep you mom in my prayers.
Thankyou Crystal, Jackie, Antonia (welcome also!) and Ginny :)
(((Ginny))) there are so many out there who struggle, this post was for them I guess as much as for Mum.
I am not sure if I have as much strength as she does...but there are days where I realise "Omg I'm turning into my mother!!!"
lol, I'm sure we all have days like it!
I dont mind too much- Mum is a good person, I hope I do as good a job raising a family as she has
God's Blessings to you all xoxox
I will keep your mother in my prayers hon:). What a wonderful tribute to your beloved mother.
I have to say it, she is beautiful. Like mother like daughter:).
Your loving friend
Marie xoxoxo
What a touching post, Rachi. God bless you and your mom.
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